Is it love?

"I love you"! Quite a frequent expression these days. Everybody is in love! Sex one night and automatically it's love! We use the word "love" so much that we forget what it means. However, it's being used so much these days that it continuously takes on different meanings.

Some say love is a feeling! Some says it's an emotion! Some say the word "love" means that they really care about you! However whenever when something goes awry in the relationship, they look for the first door. Is this what love is? This feeling that we are taken up with. This feeling that most people allow to control their lives and their judgements? Is this love, a prize to be won? Is this love, the one we all aspire to have?

Picture this. A young woman and a young man are in a relationship together. They have the most awesome sex. A mere five minutes after that, the girl turns to the guy and says "I love you"! One good night of sex and she says the words that are the keys to the treasure "I love you"! Great! The guy now has the upper hand here. He can either respond in a way to boost her ego, not give her the response she's looking for or just break up with her.

Which road do some men choose more often than most? The latter two. A handful of men choose the first option. So when the girl or the guy turns to the the other and utters those three powerful words, are they meaningful? Is it love?

No it's not! It's lust! It's not love! People need to stop using those words especially when they don't really mean it! Love as a word is very overrated! Many people use it to get what they want from either party. So is it love? When someone turns to you under these circumstances and tells you that they love you, is it love?

You decide!